Chapter 1231: Both of Your Ex-Husbands Love You Very Much

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She didn't reply, just listened silently.

Professor Lan patted He Xiyan's shoulder at this moment, and gave a comforting smile: "Okay, don't get too entangled in this issue. People always have shortcomings and advantages. Yours Both ex-husbands have their merits, otherwise you wouldn't like them, right? But no matter how good a person is, he will have shortcomings. If his character is not bad, I don't recommend that people get along with each other. Once a relationship encounters problems such as a third party, domestic violence, financial pressure, or conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the conflicts will be magnified to the point where the marriage cannot continue and eventually end in divorce. This is a very bad outcome for every marriage. It’s not easy, you have to know how to cherish and tolerate it, don’t start easily, and don’t give up easily once you start.”

Professor Lan spoke earnestly. She kept looking at He Xiyan and watching her expression change.

He Xiyan also looked up at Professor Lan and nodded to her, indicating that she understood, and of course that she recognized some of her views.

"Professor Lan, do you think I'm a bit over-the-top and like to go to extremes?" He Xiyan asked with a wry smile. She could hear the meaning of Professor Lan's words. Perhaps in Professor Lan's view, her and Ye Hao's previous marriage did not reach the point where they needed to end in divorce.

Professor Lan pursed his lips and smiled, a faint smile flashed across his face.

She thought for a moment and replied: "No, you didn't have such a personality in the beginning. Some of your experiences made you very sensitive, so you are in this state. You can try to think more about feelings. In this way, you will feel that even if it is a bad marriage, she has left you with good memories, and time will make people forget the pain. But the best things in relationships are like wine that gets better and better. Now think about whether you were happy or happy in your two relationships. For example, you might have been in your first relationship. You feel wronged, but now you know that the man you once thought did not love you actually loves you deeply. Although this love came too late, he still fell in love with your second one. Although this marriage ended badly, you and your ex-husband once loved each other so much, and you have gone through a very good time together. Why do you have to dwell on those painful memories and hurts. , after all, so many years have passed.”

Professor Lan's tone became calmer, and his expression became gentler than the serious one just now.

He Xiyan nodded.

Yes, it really doesn't make much sense for her to keep remembering those sad and painful pasts.

"Thank you, Professor Lan." He Xiyan gave a faint smile. At this time, she felt that she felt a little more relaxed, because she seemed to be able to figure out many of the problems that she had not been able to figure out on her own.

"No need." Professor Lan took a few sips of tea and said with a smile: "Actually, if you think about many things from a different perspective, you won't be so pessimistic and over-the-top. The same goes for feelings. Your two ex-husbands love you very much, although They have all done something to hurt you, but sincerity is rare, and what they gave was their most precious thing.”