Chapter 1036 Pain
h2> "Xia, what's wrong with your mother-in-law?" After dinner, Zhao Yulan found an opportunity to quietly ask her daughter, "The person who was distracted from the moment we walked in the door was because she had a conflict with your father-in-law?"
"No..." Chu Xia shook her head, "Mom, if I told you that Zhou Mikang has a twin brother, would you believe it?"
"What?!" Zhao Yulan looked incredulous and shocked, "Real or false?"
"Of course it's true..." Chu Xia sighed, glanced at Lin Yanqiu who was sitting there in a daze, and said, "Mom, please advise her when you have time. Don't worry, I asked my mother-in-law if I should tell you and dad about this matter." She didn’t object to the opinion.”
"What's going on? You talk to Mom, otherwise Mom won't know where to start, right?"
In early summer, she told the reason why Zhu Jianwen was given away and how Lin Yanqiu asked round and round about Zhu Jianwen's current life after the meeting. "My mother-in-law must have a very conflicting mood. She hopes that the other person will be loved by her parents, but she also cannot accept the other person's treatment." The adoptive parents have a deep relationship, so it became what it is now.”
"Then what does your mother-in-law mean? Do you want to recognize the other person or what?" Zhao Yulan added without waiting for her daughter to answer, "But she raised the child so big and suddenly someone exposed it, and she even thought about taking the child back. It doesn’t seem very kind, don’t you think?”
"My mother-in-law didn't think so. She actually just wanted to get in close contact with the other person, talk more with the other person, and know about the other person's life since childhood. She also hoped to have the opportunity to meet the other person in the future.
But after meeting today, she found that Zhu Jianwen had a very good relationship with her adoptive parents and did not doubt her life experience at all, which made her feel quite sad.
After all, she had not given the child away willingly in the first place, and the family had carried the child away without her knowledge. It was difficult to open up this knot for a while.
I tried to persuade her, but it didn't seem to have much effect. My mother is similar to her in age and should be able to understand her mood better. Talking to her about it may help her figure it out earlier.
By the way, grandma and the others don't know about this. Grandpa and father-in-law know about Zhu Jianwen's current life, but they have always disagreed with her mother-in-law getting involved again. Grandma has talked about it before, and it was probably her grandfather who said it later. Never mentioned it again.
The mother-in-law said that she didn't want her grandma to be as worried about her because of her provoking this matter. As for her grandfather and father, she didn't want to disappoint them.
As for her going to see Zhu Jianwen against their wishes, it was because she couldn't control herself at all. She said that if she wasn't allowed to meet him, she would go crazy.
Mom, I also know that it was not kind of me to accompany my mother-in-law to do this, but to me, she is closer to me. Although the family who took Zhu Jianwen away was pitiful, their original behavior was also a bit inappropriate. Take, mother, you think so too, right? "
"Yes..." Zhao Yulan sighed, "Speaking of which, it's not easy for your mother-in-law. For so many years, you can only keep this kind of thing in your heart, how can you feel better?
A mother has the same love and concern for any child. No matter how good or bad the life of the child she gives away is, she will always feel guilty. Even if she has no choice but to do so, her mood will be the same.
Don't worry, Mom will have a good chat with your mother-in-law, so don't worry about this..." After hesitation, she hugged her daughter's shoulders, "Xiao Mi, if you are worried, just talk to your parents. Talk, talk, don't always keep your worries to yourself. "
"Mom, I know..." Chu Xia quickly smiled happily at Zhao Yulan, "I really am not pretending. I believe that Zhou Mixang will come back safely.
As for the fact that there has been no news about him, it must be because the situation does not allow it..." She smiled sheepishly and continued, "Actually, I knew about Zhu Jianwen's existence when I was a hundred years old.
My sister-in-law told me,
She suspected that Zhu Jianwen was Zhou Mixang, but as soon as I heard her description, I felt that this possibility was very small, and even if it was true, there must be a last resort reason why she did not contact us.
I didn’t tell my mother, not because I couldn’t believe her, but because I didn’t want her to think wildly and worry after hearing this. Now, the situation has become clear, so it won’t be a big deal if I tell her, hehe..."
Zhao Yulan glared at her daughter dissatisfied: "You kid, you always like to keep things to yourself. If you had told me and your father earlier, we wouldn't have to make so many guesses.
Look at how thin you are now, your mother is worried to death. She even discussed with your father whether to carry Nan Nan and Bei Bei to school every day and let you feed them. However, your father directly objected, saying that if you really do that, you are in school. It's really embarrassing.
Hey, mother sometimes thinks, this person always has to worry about this and think about that in life, he is too tired, Xia, why don't you stop going to class and rest at home for a while? "
"Mom, why did you turn to this topic again?" Chu Xia looked at her mother helplessly, "I said, it is normal for me to lose weight now. When both little ones can eat, I will take more. You won’t be able to extract nutrients from them, don’t you think?”
"How about feeding them more milk powder?"
"Forget it. Breastfeeding is always better than formula milk, unless it's really not enough for them to eat. Mom, don't worry, I'm still young and my body can handle it.
And I don’t like being fat at all. It looks ugly when I wear clothes, and my body is prone to all kinds of problems. Isn’t there a saying that money can’t buy you old age? Although I am not old now, it can be seen from this sentence that it is better to be thin than to be fat, mother, don’t you think so? "
"You have such a mouth..." Zhao Yulan shook her head and stopped trying to persuade her. She knew her daughter's character very well. As long as she did something right, no one could change it for her. Besides, although her daughter had lost a lot of weight, she was still energetic. The boss is pretty good and there's nothing to worry about.
In the evening, there was no need for Zhao Yulan to sit there and talk about the topic. After going around in circles for a while, Lin Yanqiu smiled helplessly: "Did Xia tell you about my visit to Jianwen today?"
Zhao Yulan smiled sheepishly: "She was also worried about you and asked me to advise you. I am so clumsy and tongue-tied. It's true, haha..."
"Actually, even if you don't ask me, I still want to talk to you about this matter..." Sighing, Lin Yanqiu smiled bitterly, "After listening to what the kid said about his childhood, I also have a general understanding of the old man and Zhou Jingping. The reason why I was not allowed to take the child back.
The Zhu family who adopted Jianwen was from a pretty good family. After taking him back, they never gave birth to a boy or a girl. They really raised him as their own, and even loved their children more than ordinary parents and grandparents.
However, they are not unprincipled in pampering their children. They still teach their children very well in terms of etiquette and rules. However, because they have nothing to do, the four elders put all their efforts into him.
Because of this, his mother was particularly in love with him. He originally wanted to be a soldier, but his mother was forcing him to do so. He said that he was disappointed at the time, but later he figured it out. She loves him too much and his mother can't do that, so he is very satisfied with his current life.
In fact, I could feel that the child had doubts in his heart when he saw Xiaomi's photo. However, he tried his best to use various reasons to dispel my thoughts. At the same time, he probably also advised him not to do too much. think.
You know, seeing him like this makes me feel very uncomfortable. If their family is not in this situation, I can still discuss that the two families can resume their relationship and the child will continue to stay in the Zhu family and continue to have the surname Zhu.
But now it seems that if she really does that, her mother may really do something extreme. I saw that woman when she just gave birth to a child. At first glance, she is easy to get into trouble. If it is really because of our relationship I admit, if she made a mistake, I will never forgive myself in my life, and Jianwen's kid is even less likely to forgive me.
His personality is actually quite similar to Xiaomi, except that he is not as stubborn as Xiaomi. However, if you really mess with him, he will definitely not be easy to talk to.
However, I can't just pretend not to know. I'm as anxious as a cat scratching my head. On the one hand, I'm worried about Xiaomi's current situation, and on the other hand, I'm worried that I won't be able to see Jianwen again. .
And they say that the twin brothers have telepathy. I specifically asked him about things when he was a child, and I always asked him when Xiaomi had an accident. Sure enough, bad things happened to him at that time.
So, can you understand how I feel? "Lin Yanqiu looked at Zhao Yulan eagerly, "Now I really want to know from him whether Xiaomi is safe, but I can't tell him clearly, or even see him again. This feels really uncomfortable! "
"I understand..." Zhao Yulan also sighed, "I really understand how you feel, but sister-in-law, you must force yourself not to think about this child.
I know, I am advising you like this, it feels a bit like standing up and talking without back pain, but the fact is like this, what they did at the beginning was a bit unreasonable, but if you put it aside, most people will probably have this reaction when encountering such a thing. .
If you didn't personally agree, it was absolutely wrong for them to do this. The key issue is that you agreed to come down at that time. So, if you really think about it, you can't blame them for leaving like that, right?
After so many years, their relationship has been deep in their bones. How do you think they will feel when you suddenly appear? Uncle Zhou and Brother Zhou don't let you see him, aren't they just afraid that something extreme will happen?
Anyway, the child is doing well. As a mother, doesn’t it just want the child to be safe? Since he lives a good life in that home, it’s not bad to watch him from a distance, don’t you think? "
"Of course I understand the truth, but I can't persuade myself..." Lin Yanqiu covered her face in pain, "All I can think about is the appearance of that child. It's so painful!" R1152