Chapter 763 How to Be a Father
Zian covered his head, wishing he didn't know.
Murong Jie stared closely, Zi'an couldn't escape, so she had to ask Zhuang Zhuang to enter the palace to find Concubine Mei, she actually wanted to go in by herself, to see Concubine Mei's injuries, and listen to Concubine Mei talk about the process by the way. Be cautious of any mistakes or omissions, and think of a good rhetoric, so that you can deal with emergencies in the future.
Zhuang Zhuang heard Murong Jie ordered someone to send a message, asking her to go to the palace to find Concubine Mei, but he was unwilling to agree.
Because it is rare for her to make an appointment with Xiao Xiao today to go out to swim in the lake. It is hard to have some time of her own, but she doesn't want to spend it on entering the palace.
Murong Jie had no choice but to go to the princess mansion once, begging his grandfather to sue his grandmother, and promised a lot, but he almost promised that if she became pregnant in the future, he would move in and take care of her personally.
Zhuang Zhuang couldn't help being annoyed and funny when he saw him like a child slave, and finally punched his arm, "Make an exception once, there will be no next time."
"Okay, okay!" Murong Jie said seriously: "So, this king always says that my little aunt is the best person to me."
"You, you're going to be a father in the future, you have to know how cold you are to Zi'an, don't keep a straight face, lest you frighten Zi'an and the child in her belly."
Murong Jie said depressedly: "Why is this king always so stern?"
"No? It's like everyone owes you 2.58 million, go back to practice and smile better." Zhuang Zhuang sent him away.
Murong Jie rubbed his face and walked out.
After thinking about it, he asked Ni Rong, "Ni Rong, does this king always keep a straight face?"
"Hmm!" Ni Rong said honestly.
"Are you afraid of the king?"
"Scared!" Ni Rong was still very honest.
Murong Jie stood still, turned his shoulders, faced him, and slowly forced out a smile.
Ni Rong looked at him expressionlessly, "My lord, what do you want to do?"
"How is it?" Murong Jie still smiled, but it was very ferocious, "Are you still afraid?"
Ni Rong was silent for a while, stretched out his hand and pushed, "My lord, I'm afraid you will come over to kiss me."
"Get out!" Murong Jie said angrily, kiss you? I don't even look at how greasy your puffy face is.
Ni Rong said earnestly: "My lord, the smile comes from the heart, you go back and practice a few more times, and when your son is born, you will be able to smile kindly."
"Benevolent?" Murong Jie pinched his chin, kind? The ancestor is an old man, and she must be kind to her smile.
So, he smiled like an ancestor at Ni Rong again.
Ni Rong's scalp suddenly went numb, and he had the urge to run away. Is this kindness? This is the faint smile of the Empress Dowager before she was about to kill someone.
"Forget it, my lord, in fact, when you are not smiling, you are very friendly." Ni Rong said without conscience.
Murong Jie snorted, and got on his horse self-consciously.
He was really uncomfortable in his heart. Although he never told Zi'an, he was very eager to have his own children.
It's just that at that time, knowing that Zian was fed with red flowers, he was afraid that she would feel burdened, so he always told Zian that it didn't matter if it was there or not.
Now that she is really pregnant, the pores of his whole body are blooming, but he is also very afraid and uncomfortable, because he feels that he may not be able to be a good father.
He even smiled unnaturally.
He felt that the burden on his shoulders suddenly became much heavier.
In fact, Ni Rong knew the worry in the prince's heart. After following the prince for so many years, how could he not know?
Although the first emperor valued him, he was very strict with him since he was a child, because the first emperor trained him on the condition of a prince, and he suffered too much in his youth.
As for the Concubine Gui, it doesn't matter if I don't mention it, what she did was never what a mother should do, even worse than a passer-by.
He rode his horse, chased after him, and comforted him: "My lord, no matter what you are, the prince will accept you."
Murong Jie glanced at him indifferently, "Hua Ruo Jieyu has many things to do, Shi Can't talk is the most lovely."
Ni Rong managed to comfort him once, but he was stung. He said in an embarrassing way: "Then you learn from the princess, the princess is kind."
Murong Jie thought very seriously that he should learn how to be a father.
He thought hard in his mind, those families in Beijing are loving fathers and filial sons, loving each other.
The Xiao family and the Chen family are both good, especially the Chen family, the family atmosphere is really good.
He actually yearns for that.
Therefore, he decided to go to Chen's house and seek Buddhist scriptures from Mrs. Chen.
Chen Taijun was dumbfounded when he heard Murong Jie said that he was here to learn how to teach children. How could she know how to teach children?
For a long time, people outside have said that she protects her weaknesses and spoils her too much, and sometimes she has no words to refute. Thinking about it, it really matters that she is spoiled, especially Liuliu, so that almost no one cares about her.
However, when the regent came to learn the scriptures, he looked at his pious eyes, which was a piousness that she had never seen in this life. She was really embarrassed to say that she couldn't.
Searching his guts, this veteran warrior with no education level wanted to get a few words from the ancients, but he couldn't find a word.
Seeing her like this, Murong Jie said that she was unwilling to teach, and couldn't help but said disappointedly: "Is the old lady so stingy?"
The old lady bit the bullet and cleared her throat, "It's not that I'm stingy, there's nothing to be stingy about, that's the so-called childbirth, education is necessary after birth, this..."
She suddenly remembered that she had heard the empress dowager teach the late emperor, and that the late emperor was still the crown prince at that time.
So, she said: "Being a human being, from the moment he was born, he has something he is destined to bear on his shoulders, no matter what it is, even if it is just to be filial to his parents, responsible to his children, and loyal to the people of the country... "
Murong Jie frowned, and interrupted her, "Being loyal to the common people?"
"This..." The old matriarch was stunned for a moment, trying to recall, that's right, the empress dowager said so, she said, in fact, the so-called emperor, whether it is an official, is a high-priced servant of the people. Salary, if you enjoy this glory, you have to do things for your master.
"Just tell me how you taught your children and grandchildren." Murong Jie said.
The old matriarch really couldn't think of any words to say, so he said honestly: "Give food and clothes, if you do something right, praise and praise, if you do something wrong, you will be whipped, that's what we say when we govern the army... ...Well, that's the thing, it's the same for soldiers and children, soldiers... When the child's mind is deviated, talk to him and talk about the truth. If the child is self-motivated, he will encourage and support him more, um ... The ancestors once said that all problems with children, all problems, cannot be solved without the word "companion."
Murong Jie's two eyeballs were as round as longan cores, and there were bubbles of admiration, "It makes sense."
"Yeah!" The old lady straightened her back and felt that she was right, so she continued: "Actually, there is no so-called orthodox method for educating children. Teaching them to understand things and establish correct concepts and human nature is the only way to educate them." That's enough, as for the others, let's teach them in accordance with their aptitude, every child has different talents and personalities, it just seems to be the case."
Murong Jie thought it was right, although he could hear that the old matriarch's words were all mixed up, but it also touched his heart.