Chapter 245 The Best Love Is Companionship
This is true. Feng Leiting knows Feng Zhangdong's temper and character very well. Many things can only be done according to the trend. If you must do something to him, it will only end in failure.
"Well, you kids are really troublesome. If you can communicate with him, try your best to talk to him." Feng Leiting could only say this.
In fact, when people reach a certain age, they still need to be more open-minded about many things. On the one hand, children and grandchildren will have their own blessings, but they should not be too attached to their own obsessions! Many things in life cannot be brought with you in life or taken away with you in death. Why do you have to emphasize what is yours?
When Feng Beichen faced his grandfather, what could he say? He could only say calmly, "Be more open-minded. There is no final conclusion in this world."
This is true. Where can there be anything that remains unchanged? No matter how powerful a person is, it is impossible to solve everything in this world one by one!
"Let's go have dinner. The future world will ultimately belong to you young people. You must work harder." Feng Leiting said with some disappointment.
As people get older, they will gradually develop a sense of powerlessness, and their ability to control the world will become worse and worse. This feeling will wear away and people will slowly have to accept old age.
Feng Beichen nodded. He was in the prime of his life at this age, so naturally he would not be as sad as Feng Leiting. However, due to his lack of life experience, his ability to deal with many things calmly was still insufficient.
He suddenly changed the topic and asked with concern, "How is great-grandpa now? Is it getting better?"
Speaking of this, Feng Leiting became even more sad. In fact, the old man's situation was getting worse day by day, but what about his children and grandchildren? Everyone is busier than the other, and there are almost no words of concern.
But who can he blame? Maybe life is like this? At the end of the road, everyone has to moan in pain alone on the hospital bed. No matter what they want to do or how they want to be, their consciousness is not so clear!
"It's impossible. I can't talk about the quality of life anymore. I can only maintain it like this!" Feng Leiting said sadly, suddenly feeling like he was explaining his funeral, "I hope that when my time comes, I can have euthanasia!"
Life should be lived beautifully, but the final departure should also be dignified! But in China, there is currently no good way for people to leave gracefully!
We always think that spending all our money and giving our best is the greatest filial piety to our elders, but we must know that each of us should have dignity in life. If in the end, we leave in such a dirty and embarrassing way, are we willing?
If the parties involved do something they are unwilling to do, but others insist on doing it, does this count as violating a person's original intention? If people's original intentions are violated, how can we talk about humanistic care?
Feng Beichen, who was in his prime and in his prime, would certainly not have thought of this, but occasionally, he would think about life and consider his attitude towards the last moments of his life, especially when An Ran was in a coma. after.
"Grandpa, people's lifespan is getting longer and longer now. Don't worry, you will definitely live a long life." Of course he couldn't discuss this issue with Feng Leiting, so he had to comfort him and hope that he wouldn't be so sad, " I’ll take some time to visit my great-grandpa tomorrow.”
For the elderly who are on the verge of running out of options, what can they do as juniors? The best thing is just to go and have a look, visit more, and do your best.
Feng Leiting nodded. It was a great thing for him to have such a heart and say such words. What else could he ask for?
"Well, if other children can be like this, I will be satisfied." Feng Leiting suddenly felt a little depressed.
The elderly, especially when faced with life and death, will always be more sad than those in their prime. However, everyone will go through such stages in their life, and everyone must follow the laws of nature.
Feng Beichen smiled faintly, "Grandpa, when you say that, do you mean you are satisfied with me?"
He just wanted the atmosphere between the two to become a little lighter. After all, it had always been so dull, and after all, no one wanted to see it. "Being sad only lasts for a while, why should it continue forever?" People of Feng Leiting's age are actually more open-minded about all mundane things, so he just laughed and said, "Well, what does it matter if you are satisfied or dissatisfied? Anyway, you have to live your own life in the future. I should
It can't be stressed enough. "
This is true. As a parent, what can he do? If future generations have no internal drive, then it will be useless for him to do anything for them.
On the contrary, if each of them is highly motivated and motivated to do things, they will be particularly proactive in doing things without any supervision from others, and of course things will be done perfectly. Since the old man said this, regardless of whether he really had other thoughts in his heart, Feng Beichen only listened to what he meant on the surface, so he twitched the corners of his mouth slightly and said to him, "Grandpa, I know that your cultivation level is the highest. , being able to think like this is also our blessing, so let’s go out and use it now
meal? "
In fact, the conversation between the two lasted quite a long time. After chatting for so long, it was already past the usual meal time. Fortunately, everyone knew that if something happened at home, the meal time must follow Feng Leiting's rhythm. That’s all.
That is to say, in this family, everyone, including Du Xiuhua, is headed by Feng Leiting.
This is understandable, after all, he is the head of the family, and everything must be done with him as the head.
"Well, it's getting late. Your grandma might be hungry again." Speaking of Du Xiuhua, Feng Leiting's face showed a trace of tenderness. When he was young, he didn't look like much, but once he got older, the relationship between his wife and his wife That feeling is really hard to let go. Therefore, if you can stay together when you are young, it will be really gratifying when you are old! The two of them talk about the past very intimately. After all, they have gone through too many ups and downs together and have more common topics. Reminiscing about the past together is also a great pleasure.
Blessing thing.
Feng Beichen stood up and said, "I love grandma so much, we juniors should really take you two as role models!" No matter what, good is good, and fine traditions must be carried forward and learned. "People, you don't understand many things when you are young, and by the time you understand them, you are already old, so you should listen to us!"