1408. Inquiry
"This little girl is really nice. Anyway, you two try to understand each other as much as possible. Don't be impatient when encountering things. There are many things that depend on communication. If the communication is not in place, there may be some disagreements, but In the final analysis, relationships still need more communication and frankness, as long as you have any thoughts in your heart, you can directly tell the other party clearly, don't have too much cover up or expect the other party to find out by themselves."
Li Ke may not have much emotional experience. When he first became famous, he was naturally surrounded by many girls of all kinds, but when getting along with these people, he didn't seem to invest too much emotion at all. It has a dispensable attitude in itself.
Because he is very clear about what the other party wants and wants, it is not that he really likes himself, but rather likes the heat around him and being with him, he will receive envious and jealous eyes from others.
And what I want is nothing more than some physical needs, and at the same time, it makes my life after writing less boring. Since I have this idea in mind, I won't put too much emotional investment in the process of communication, and naturally I don't have much emotional experience.
But even so, he still has a certain understanding of emotion. It’s not just the books I’ve read, or some TV dramas and sharing on the Internet. In the final analysis, a large part of the differences between couples is due to the differences in communication between the two parties. There are some things that women always expect boys to be able to do on their own. I know where the fault is, but boys are always confused, and don't know why the other party loses their temper for no reason.
Maybe sometimes we can be more honest with each other, whether it is what you feel is wrong with the other party or what you want the other party to do, just say it directly and frankly, it may make the relationship smoother and more stable .
There are many things that I can’t guess if you don’t tell them, and you always hope that I can understand this aspect. Naturally, there will be many differences, and even the origin of the conflict between the two parties. In this state, everyone thinks What I did was right, even because of the other party, the relationship that might have been harmonious, but because of this kind of difference, it directly faced a situation of rupture, and even became an enemy who would no longer communicate with each other.
Therefore, in Lisko's view, the most needed thing in love is honesty, and unreservedly reveal all of one's personality and aspects to each other's eyes. If two people can do this, then Maybe the relationship between you will really be maintained for a long time and steadily, and you may even become the person who is the other person's hand in hand until the end.
When Lisko painstakingly taught Xiaoyu some views and concepts in the process of love and communication, the other party always maintained a very open-minded attitude of listening to the lecture. After all, no matter what, I still have to admire Lisko's eyes on many issues. After all, he is a big brother who is so much older than himself, so he will always be better than himself when looking at problems.
Seeing that Xiaoyu listened carefully when he was imparting his experience, Lisko was in the mood to continue communicating with him about some life.
"Recently, I see that you are always sighing. It seems that you have encountered some difficulties. Since it is not about emotional matters, where are some problems? If you want, you can share with me, even if I may not be able to help you. , can also give you advice and the like. And your aunt and sister can see your state, and they are also very concerned about your life and the difficulties you encounter. After all, we are a family, and there are many You don’t need to hide things so much, just tell everyone frankly.”
It wasn't until this moment that Lisko revealed the main purpose of inviting him to play games with him today. After all, no matter how much Xiaoyu concealed it, almost everyone living in the castle was one of the members who knew him best in the world. For the lingering melancholy between the other party's eyebrows and eyes during this period, even if you don't feel it directly, you can still feel it from some subtleties.
Originally, this conversation should be carried out by Zhang Li, but it may be because his younger brother has grown up, and there may be a lot of concealment during the conversation, and Xiaoyu himself is a child who likes to report good news but not bad news. If Zhang Li were to conduct this conversation, the answer he would get would definitely be that there was nothing wrong with it, and he would even reply that he was living a good life now.
It would be even more inappropriate for Zhang You and Li Feng to have this conversation. After all, there is always some gap between the elders and the younger generation. Even because of the difference in worldview, cognition and living environment, the source of many troubles for young people is that these years A place that the elders can't understand at all.
Since none of these people could act as the object of this chat, only Lisko, who seemed a little distant but was greatly respected and admired by Xiaoyu, was left to come forward.
It may be because Lisko has always cared for Xiaoyu very much in his life, and even the achievements he has made so far are the role models and objects that Xiaoyu has always wanted to imitate. The words spoken by family members are more acceptable to Xiaoyu.
It is precisely because of this that Lisko accepted the entrustment of the whole family, chose a more appropriate and appropriate time, and asked carefully what kind of difficulties the other party encountered in life, and at the same time played his role as the eldest brother, Give the other party correct life guidance and guidance on some issues.
Originally, in Lisko's guess, Xiaoyu should have encountered some difficulties in the process of work, or encountered some setbacks in life, but after thinking about it carefully, these things may not happen easily. After all, on the one hand, the construction company is In his own business, no matter what Xiaoyu did not do properly, Wen Liang would report to him immediately instead of reprimanding him from the leadership position.
In addition, Wen Liang himself is a gentle person, and it is not groundless that he is admired by many people at work. If he is the kind of leader who deliberately makes things difficult, he will not have the current achievements and status.
As for the setbacks that may be encountered in life, it is even less likely to happen. At present, Xiaoyu has no worries about food and clothing, and even his work is very simple and easy. He also has a very good girlfriend. There is nothing worth worrying about in life. The place.