Chapter 289: Teaching Children

The development of Xinghuo Technology is on the right track, and the company has nothing to disturb Zhou Yu for the time being.

The long-lost free time made him very relaxed. He taught his son and daughter how to walk at home.

This is not the first time Zhou Yu has taught them to walk. He failed several times before, so Zhou Yu decided to adopt some strategies to educate them.

Zhou Yu gave them a demonstration. He knelt on the ground and stood up slowly. First, he did a half-squat, and after his body got used to it, he slowly stood up.

Keeping the center of gravity of the body, take small steps forward.

"Learning the steps I just did is actually very simple, as long as you stabilize yourself and don't fall, move slowly, and learning to walk is not difficult."

Seeing that they were indifferent, Zhou Yu still sat on the ground and played the game.

He took out a box of strawberries from the refrigerator, and opened the box to release the fresh scent of strawberries.

"I want to eat, I want to eat, Dad, I want to eat." Zhou Shengge said with a puffy face.

"I want to eat too, give it to me, give it to me. Sister, don't fight me." Zhou Hong shook his head and said.

Zhou Yu put the strawberries 5 meters away from them and said to them: "As long as you come here, these strawberries will be eaten by you.

You have to come here to count, not to climb. "

At the same time, Zhou Yu encouraged: "You are all big children, you have to learn to walk by yourself. Others can already learn to walk by themselves when they reach your age, and you can't always crawl on the ground."

"Daddy, I can walk."

After Zhou Shengge finished speaking, she slowly stood up from the crawling state with her head held high, and moved forward little by little with her calves.

Each step is small, but still insists on moving forward.

Zhou Shengge walked a long distance of 5 meters with difficulty, and came to Zhou Yu's side.

Zhou Yu took out the prepared strawberries, handed them to Zhou Shengge and said, "Shengge, your favorite strawberry, this is a reward for you."

Zhou Shengge wiped the sweat off his brow with his small hands, picked up the strawberry and began to eat it happily.

After Zhou Hong saw it, he cried and said, "I want to eat strawberries too, sister, don't grab my strawberries."

After he finished speaking, he quickly crawled to Zhou Yu's position, his movements were still very fast, and he was very skilled at first glance.

Seeing his son crawling to his feet, Zhou Yu immediately hugged Zhou Hong to his original position, and said with a straight face: "If you reach the finish line, you will have strawberries to eat, and you will have no strawberries to eat when you climb over there. You must learn to abide by it." rule."

Zhou Hong sat on the spot and burst into tears. Seeing Zhou Yu ignoring him, he wiped away his tears and tried to stand up with his mouth pouted.

Looking at Zhou Hong's performance, Zhou Yu was not surprised at all.

At this age, he has learned to observe the expressions of adults.

The only weapon he knows is crying. As long as parents spoil their children at this time, they will miss a good opportunity and won't let their children develop the habit of obeying the rules.

When the child is seven or eight years old, the parents will find that the child is no longer easy to manage.

They will use high-pressure means to manage and suppress children with their strong physique.

When children grow into adolescence, their physical strength is almost the same as that of adults, and they will refute the authority of their parents.

When parents see their children not acting according to their plan, they assume that their children are rebelling against them.

This is actually a failure to set good rules for children when they were young.

It's not just that laws and morals are rules, they are just rules that everyone has agreed upon and cannot be violated.

Cultivate children's rules when they are young, this is to exercise their self-control ability, and it is also a bridge to cultivate equal communication between adults and children.

Behind every bad child there is a pair of bad parents. If the children are not educated well, this is definitely a failure of the parents, and there is no reason to shirk.

Some parents don't know how to educate their children, but they adopt simple and crude methods, wanting their children to become what they want, and sending their children to Professor Yang and others.

Through methods such as threats and intimidation, they want to tame people like beasts.

These parents just want to get their children to obey their orders. They don't know how to educate their children at all, and they are not worthy of being parents.

Zhou Yu withdrew his thoughts and waited for Zhou Hong's performance.

After Zhou Hong found that crying didn't work, he followed his elder sister's example and stood up slowly, ready to walk to eat strawberries.

He didn't walk as slowly as Zhou Shengge did. Seeing Zhou Shengge eating strawberries, he felt very anxious and walked as fast as a trot.

I have just learned to walk, and I haven't grasped the center of gravity of my body, so I am anxiously walking forward.

Zhou Hong's center of gravity was unstable, and he immediately fell to the ground.

Zhou Yu observed Zhou Hong's state through the Protoss glasses, and found that he was in good health without any scratches on his body.

Zhou Yu immediately put down his mind, and instead of helping Zhou Hong up, he encouraged him from the sidelines: "Fatty, you can do it, you walked very well just now.

It's normal to learn to walk and wrestle. When your father and I learned to ride a bicycle when we were young, we lost a tooth.

It is not terrible to fall, but the terrible thing is that you can't get up after you fall. You have to believe in yourself, you are a man, and you will definitely be able to stand up by yourself. "

After Zhou Yu found out that Zhou Hong was fine, he chose to encourage him.

Unlike what chicken soup for the soul said, in order to cultivate the independence of the child, parents should encourage the child to stand up even if the child is injured.

The child's psychological endurance is not strong, and if he is hurt beyond his psychological endurance, his parents must comfort him, and at the same time start to take care of him, so that he can feel the love of his parents.

Otherwise, you will definitely feel afraid of something in your heart, be timid about doing things, and be indifferent to your parents at the same time.

Zhou Hong stood up firmly with a small face, and tried to walk again.

After falling twice, he finally walked a distance of 5 meters.

Zhou Hong immediately got a strawberry, forgot the unhappiness just now, and ate it with a smile on his face.

Chen Jin came out of the bedroom. She stroked the small faces of Zhou Shengge and Zhou Hong, and praised: "You have performed very well, and you have learned to walk now. Mom will reward you later and cook you a big meal that you love .”

Zhou Shengge and Zhou Hong, led by the intelligent robot, went to their playground to play.

Chen Jin asked Zhou Yu: "You didn't let me out just now, just to exercise their independence."

"That's right, mother is their biggest support. If you disagree with me, no matter how hard I try, I won't be able to educate them well." Zhou Yu said with emotion.

Children's education must be agreed by parents and can be completed through joint efforts. If any link is missing, it will only get twice the result with half the effort.

"They are still young, if you educate them so harshly, will they lose their childhood happiness?" Chen Jin worried.

"I would rather they have less joy in their childhood than less pain in their adulthood.

I, Zhou Yu, will never let my child be a rice bug or a bastard with nothing to do.

In ancient times, it was said that wealth can only last three generations, that is to say nouveau riche.

The real aristocratic families in ancient times even existed for thousands of years, even if the dynasties changed, their status would not be affected.

This has nothing to do with education. Learning has always been a painful thing, and there is no way to learn happily.

Only by enduring the pain for a while can we usher in the happiness in the future. "Zhou Yu said firmly.

Make up, and make up another chapter tomorrow.