1212: Are You Teaching Me to Complain? (1 More)

My daughter has already gone to college, and she is blushing at every turn. Some people may think it is pretentious.

Tang Hongen didn't think so at all.

Liu Fen's character is too real, she has never encountered these, and what Tang Hongen said to her has never been said before!

These are the most natural reactions. There is no hypocrisy and no mask. Tang Hongen just feels it is precious. It turned out that the two are suitable, Liu Fen is very quiet and will take care of people, suitable for living... Similar thoughts have long been forgotten, she is indeed a traditional Chinese wife and mother, but it is not limited to this.

Before being labeled a good wife and mother, Liu Fen was first and foremost an individual with her own thoughts.

Tang Hongen didn't want to limit himself to returning home in the future. He handed her the clothes, and she set up dinner for him... This kind of family warmth is very precious, and he could not have asked for it.

People are just too greedy, and what Tang Hongen is now pursuing is the exchange of ideas between the two.

He has to figure out what Liu Fen thinks, and he hopes to tell Liu Fen what he thinks!

Seeing Liu Fen blushing, Tang Hongen asked:

"Afen, are you really not jealous? You're still upset, but you're sulking and didn't tell me?"

Liu Fen hesitated, "Can I be unhappy?"

No woman would not mind at all in this situation.

Sheng Xuan is so beautiful, and she is deeply in love with Tang Hongen.

But people didn't come to scold her, they dealt with her several times politely, and said goodbye. Liu Fen couldn't tell what was wrong. She wanted to hate Sheng Xuan, but she didn't find a reason to hate him.

After all, Sheng Xuan was polite and polite from beginning to end. If she cares about it, it will become her fault.

Xia Xiaolan said to tell Tang Hongen, but Liu Fen stopped her.

She was conflicted inside.

On the one hand, I trust Tang Hongen quite a bit, but on the other hand, I don't want to make Tang Hongen look down.

It's as if she can't even handle that!

At this time, when I called Tang Hongen a tick, that bit of unhappiness popped up, and I couldn't hold it back.

Tang Hongen thought to himself, "Of course you can be unhappy, didn't I say it, it depends on your mood whether you want to ignore anyone or not, whoever makes you unhappy can ignore him, you have to let others know that they have done something wrong. If something provokes you, then in order to avoid angering you next time, they will not do stupid things that anger you again. Among these people, of course, including me! Of course, I hope that I can be treated with a little privilege, don't wait for the next time Let me make corrections, let's have a good discussion, let's talk about it on the spot, and leave no trouble, okay?"

Tang Hongen is like giving a lesson.

The truth is explained in a simple way, who can't understand it?

When Liu Fen left the countryside, she was actually a piece of white paper. Xia Xiaolan was teaching her how to do business. Grandma Yu taught her how to behave. Li Fengmei told her that women should be savage, even the customers in the clothing store. Everyone she met had something to teach her. She... She absorbs and mixes these things in order to grow quickly.

What others taught, Liu Fen absorbed the good side.

Until I met Tang Hongen.

Tang Hongen liked her honesty and kindness at first, but now he seems to think she is too honest, afraid that she will be bullied because of this, but he has been teaching her to be black and self-willed!

Liu Fen came after tasting the taste: "Are you teaching me to sue?"

No, it's not like that, it's teaching her to communicate more when it comes to things, don't hold her grievance in her heart, one day it breaks out, it will be settled after the fall, the contradictions accumulate a little bit, and she is too angry to kick him... Others must be reluctant to kick him , Like it or not, she is the mayor's wife when she is married.

Liu Fen would definitely be willing to kick him. If he wasn't the "mayor", Liu Fen probably wouldn't have hesitated for so long before agreeing to him!

However, the "complaint" that Liu Fen said also has some meaning. When lesbians go home, how many do not like to complain?

I was bullied by my mother-in-law today.

I was gossiped by my colleagues in the unit.

Comparing among friends.

Lesbians have suffered all kinds of grievances outside, so they can't go home and act like a spoiled child?

It doesn't necessarily mean that the men in the family really go out to fight for her, as long as she stands with her and shows the attitude of the same enemy.

Tang Hongen nodded resolutely: "Yes, I'm just teaching you to complain! If you don't tell me, I won't be able to guess it right every time. You told me, it's not for all of us to save time and effort. ?"

The truth is this.

There is a conflict with what Grandma Yu taught. Grandma Yu said that women should reserve their sweet words when facing men.

When he likes a woman, he listens with relish to every little thing he rambles about, and it is fun to talk and do things.

When the feelings change from strong to weak, and the same trivial things are said too much, they will despise women for nagging!

Who is right? Liu Fen can't judge yet. Tang Hongen is so sincere, so let's try to listen to him first. When he was annoyed, she didn't say it.

"I'm not very happy, you didn't mention Sheng Xuan to me in advance, she came to the door herself, and Min Xiaoju reminded me to know who she was. But if you really want to mention this person to me, I may still I will be unhappy, I will think that you care about her, and I will wonder why you didn’t choose Sheng Xuan. She is beautiful, highly educated, has a good job, and she is a big girl who has never married... Sheng Xuan’s conditions are very good, With someone like her in front, why do you like me?"

Is this jealous?

He was really jealous.

Liu Fen was unconscious. She didn't feel that as she continued to learn and enrich herself, her speech became more and more organized.

It's not that she didn't feel this way before, the Xia family had given her enough grievances, but she

Unable to speak!

No one will take it seriously when I say it. I'm used to it, and I don't know how to express my anger and grievance.

"Yeah, why did I fall in love with you? Sheng Xuan, a beautiful woman, was placed in front of me, and it was publicized that I would not marry. She was more than ten years younger than me, and she was still a big girl who had never been married. I told her I haven't spoken to you on the phone yet. Most of it was said when she was a child. She used to play at the Song family's house. You said she was interested in me again. If I wasn't the mayor, it was An ordinary worker, will she still like me, a divorced man who is a dozen years older than her?"

Liu Fen thought about Tang Hongen's words carefully and thought it was impossible.

"If you were an ordinary worker, whoever introduced Sheng Xuan to you would be a matchmaker."

Liu Fen said it bluntly, Tang Hongen looked at her and smiled: "So you still don't understand? I chose you because I am sure, even if I am not the mayor, as long as we see the right eye, Efen, you You will still marry me. I'm not saying that you are worse than Sheng Xuan, but you are easier to satisfy than her."

Power is like strong wine, it can make a man intoxicated.

Tang Hongen naturally knew that his own words were effective, not that he could please everyone, but that he was in the right place.

Most of the people around him are trying to please him. Tang Hongen doesn't want to sleep at night when the person beside his pillow turns his back and is still plotting against him!

This is the most commendable part of Liu Fen. You have to say that she is not familiar with the world. Her daughter has already gone to college, and she has had a bad life before, and she has seen the dark side of the world.

She can naturally go bad, and it is the world who let her down first.

But has she changed?

Tang Hongen felt that Liu Fen's change was changing for the better, and it was commendable that she could stick to her heart.