044: Unmarried People (4 Updates)

Bai Zhenzhu doesn't want to stay in Pengcheng or Yangcheng for the time being.

Bai Zhenzhu was born in 1962, 3 years older than Xia Xiaolan.

This year, Xia Xiaolan will turn 23, and Bai Zhenzhu is a real 26-year-old girl.

Although it seems that the words "girl" and "girl" are not related at all, in the eyes of Grandma Bai, the 26-year-old granddaughter does not worry about her life-long affairs at all. Can the old lady rest assured?

"So you were forced to go to Qiongdao by being forced to get married?"

This is too exaggerated.

Why worry at 26? There are so many people who are still in school at 26!

Bai Zhenzhu's eyes were filled with resentment, "You are already married at the age of 23. Can my grandma not be in a hurry?"

Bai Zhenzhu doesn't want to get married at all.

Who can accept her like this?

She also didn't want to wrong herself and force herself to make changes for the sake of an inexplicable man.

In the past, Xia Xiaolan was used as a shield. She said that her career was not big enough and she was not in a hurry to start a family. This year Xia Xiaolan and Zhou Cheng got married, and Grandma Bai finally had something to say to rebut Bai Pearl: Xiaolan has done so much in her career and hasn't delayed getting married, why don't you get married?

Anyone with a bigger career than you has a family.

Your career is not as good as others', why aren't you more active?

Bai Zhenzhu was instantly hit by an arrow in the knee and was completely unable to refute.

It is absolutely impossible for Grandma Bai to accept the concept of "not getting married"!

Not to mention Grandma Bai who lived in 1988, even parents living in 2018 are not very accepting of their children having this idea.

Not getting married? There is something wrong with anyone who is not married!

Homosexuals and lilies are all sick, and they will be cured when they get married!

Fortunately, Grandma Bai doesn't know enough, or else Bai Pearl would dress in a masculine way and resist marrying a partner of the opposite sex, so she would have to be thrown into the "lesbian" camp by Grandma Bai——

Grandma Bai doesn't understand, but Xia Xiaolan does.

There is nothing to hide about gays and lesbians 30 years later. Some young people even proudly claim that they are bisexual. Sexual orientation that conforms to public values ​​is no longer fashionable...

Even if Bai Zhenzhu is really a lesbian, Xia Xiaolan doesn't think it matters, let alone that Bai Zhenzhu is just unmarried.

Hearing that she was forced to get married and go to Qiongdao to avoid the limelight, Xia Xiaolan immediately agreed.

White Pearl was also complaining on the road:

"My sister-in-law gave birth to a big fat boy for my brother, who is now a great contributor to the Bai family. My grandma now completely listens to my sister-in-law. When these two people get together, they will worry about whether I will get married or not, and my sister-in-law will introduce me to her. object."

Those who work in Yangcheng government agencies.

He looks elegant and elegant, and he is still a college student who was just assigned to the institution the year before last.

Bai Zhenzhu's sister-in-law Chang Ying is not considered a cheating sister-in-law. The young man has a clean financial background, a gentle appearance, and is 2 years younger than Bai Zhenzhu in terms of education. With such good conditions, it is Bai Zhenzhu's turn. Why doesn't she smile?

Bai Zhenzhu was originally going home to see her nephew, but unexpectedly saw a stranger at home. At first, she thought he was a relative of Chang Ying's family, but Bai Zhenzhu didn't take it seriously at all.

Later, her sister-in-law Chang Ying and her grandmother asked her privately what her impression was of the young man. Only then did Bai Zhenzhu realize that she had been arranged on a blind date without knowing it.

What's your impression?

He's tall and thin, so he probably can't bear her punch!

Bai Zhenzhu thought she couldn't bear such a blessing.

She doesn't like gentle men, and she doesn't have academic qualifications.

She also saw a lot of college students. There were capable college students like Xiaolan, and there were also those who didn't know anything and could only talk on paper... The worship of academic qualifications did not exist here in Bai Zhenzhu. She was impatient to argue with her sister-in-law and grandma, so she simply made excuses. When traveling on business, avoid the limelight.

Can't bear a punch... What standard is this?

But this has always been Bai Zhenzhu’s character.

Sister Pearl even kicked out Du Zhaohui's teeth.

Xia Xiaolan laughed, "Then you can't hide all the time. I think you need to talk to your family and talk about your own views on marriage. Do you have no plans to get married now, or do you plan to never get married for the rest of your life? You have to let your family know People know what you think. They may not understand it for a while, and that’s okay. Over time, you’ll have to compromise.”

Wedding plans?

Marriage is so troublesome, so she doesn't want to get married.

"I want to remain unmarried for the rest of my life. Do you think I'm weird?"

Bai Zhenzhu couldn't help but ask Xia Xiaolan.

Xia Xiaolan shook her head, "I can't guarantee what others think. For me, I think it's normal, and true friends respect each other. Those who regard you as a friend will not question you on this kind of thing."

What are you getting married for?

It's because they like each other and they want to work together to help each other. This is Xia Xiaolan's own understanding.

But there are always some people who will naturally point fingers at other people's choices, such as being unfilial and having no offspring is the most important, and not getting married and having no one to take care of you when you are old... But for married people, it is not certain who will take care of whom.

The hidden costs women pay in marriage are too high.

They have to take care of housework, have children, and raise children. While doing these things, many women also have to work.

As for men, as long as they take their wages home, they can seem to be able to become a master without having to do housework or take care of the children. They can sit down on the chair and wait for dinner.

Xia Xiaolan was an older leftover girl in her last life. Not only was she busy with her career and delayed major life events, she basically

It was her own initiative to choose to be left behind. She really didn’t have the courage to get married - instead she stayed single, earned her own money and spent it on her own. With good financial planning, she didn’t have to worry about her future retirement life. Of course, she dared to choose that way because she had achieved financial freedom to a certain extent through 20 years of hard work, so she was not afraid of future risks.

If a woman can't even support herself, Xia Xiaolan really doesn't dare to instill the idea of ​​'not getting married' in others.

White Pearl doesn't matter. Now she has a net worth of tens of millions. Does it matter whether she gets married or not? There are so many things to be busy with every day. If it weren't for her family urging her to get married, Bai Zhenzhu would never have thought of it.

Xia Xiaolan said that if you meet the right person and like it, just get married. If you don't meet someone, you don't have to force yourself. You have to need "marriage" to prove to others that you are gregarious.

Bai Zhenzhu discussed this matter with Xia Xiaolan and gained Xia Xiaolan's approval, which made her feel more relaxed.

Xiaolan also said that her wishes are the most important!

Although her sister-in-law Chang Ying is from the Bai family, and her grandma is her closest relative, she doesn't really have to listen to them.

To put it more vulgarly, the lives of Chang Ying and her grandmother were quite satisfactory, completely different from her choices. The so-called experience and guidance of experienced people were useless to her!

Bai Zhenzhu's idea suddenly became clear. When he arrived at Qiongdao, he smiled and asked Xiaolan:

"Are you going to the army to see Zhou Cheng? Can I follow you?"

"what are you going to do?"

Xia Xiaolan asked casually, White Pearl's face was filled with anticipation:

"On the day of your and Zhou Cheng's wedding, I met Third Brother Pan. I have always been curious about Third Brother Pan's strength. Maybe I didn't get to fight. After drinking the wedding wine that day, I couldn't help but ask Third Brother Pan for a fight. He said you guys It’s not a good time to fight on a big day, it’s better to make an appointment another day!”

So you came to Qiongdao to have a fight?

——Liar, he also said that he was running away from his family’s pressure to get married, and he obviously came to fight with Pan Sange on purpose!