Chapter 1039 This Is a World that Is Controlled by Others or Controlled by Others
Dumplings, homophonic to "Jiaozi", have the beautiful meanings of the old and the new, festive reunion and auspiciousness in the traditional culture of the flower planter.
In the hearts of northerners, especially Dongshan people, dumplings have a very special status.
Some people later made up jokes, saying that the food on Dongshan people on New Year's Eve was dumplings, the first day of the day was dumplings, and the second day of the day was dumplings until the fifteenth day of the day.
There was even a joke about the daughter-in-law from another place who came to Dongshan for the first time, and the mother-in-law only served dumplings and no stir-frying dishes.
In fact, this is all rumor. Dumplings are the high-standard etiquette of Dongshan people to entertain guests, but there are other dishes on the dinner table on New Year’s Eve. Otherwise, how can you let the men at home drink?
So on New Year's Eve, the wife of the old Li family, all squeezed into the kitchen to cook.
If Han Chunmei and her daughter were a little uncomfortable when they reunited last year, but this year, Han Chunmei and Fu Yiruo often contacted each other, so there were naturally more between the two sides.
Wu Juying was in charge of the command, Fu Guiru and Han Chunmei's main chefs, Wen Leyu, Li Juan, Li Ying and Fu Yiruo acted as primary school apprentices, busy laughing and cheering, harmonious and harmonious.
As for the men from the old Li family, they don’t go to the kitchen today because they have a more important task - to set off firecrackers!
On New Year's Eve in 1988, I couldn't help but fireworks. Since the sky got dark, the sound of firecrackers sounded, and it was slower and more rhythmic.
There was a short video of Uncle Benshan celebrating the New Year in the ruins in later generations. Even if it is poor or difficult, he would have to exchange two kilograms of white bread and a meal of dumplings on the 30th day of the New Year, and hollow out the last pound in his pocket. I have to buy half-carved firecrackers.
In fact, people are not greedy for eating that dumpling, nor are they setting off half of firecrackers to listen to the sound. Everyone is just motivating themselves and letting themselves accumulate energy during the New Year's Day and compare next year's life. This year is better and will get better and better in the future.
So firecrackers and dumplings were equally important things in that era.
Even if there are more firecrackers in the family, their lives will be better.
The old Li family bought a lot of firecrackers this year. Li Zhongfa, Li Kaijian and Li Ye's family have three generations, each with a child, and began to teach their experience of setting off firecrackers.
How could children in the 1980s and 1990s not fire? It must be cultivated from an early age.
"Did you see this core? Extend your arm and use your head to top it with your fire. When you hear a sizzling sound, you turn around and run quickly."
"This is not lit yet! What are you afraid of?"
Grandpa Li Zhongfa took his grandson Li Youan and taught him step by step to use the burning incense head to light the fuse of the second kick.
Unfortunately, this child was the oldest among the three children, but he was the youngest. He started covering his ears before he even lit the fuse. The burning incense head almost burned the mink hat.
This made Li Zhongfa, who was walking through the rain of bullets, very dissatisfied. The young grandson looked very much like his eyebrows, but he didn't know who he was brave enough to follow.
"Xiao Baoer, please put one for the old man!"
Li Kaijian pushed out his grandson and asked him to show Li Zhong's development.
But Xiao Baoer had no intention of setting off, so she turned around and pulled her sister out.
"You go."
What the hell!
Your brother encourages your sister to go first?
What's wrong? Anyway, my uncle is timid, so it’s not embarrassing that you are a brother, right?
But Xiao Dou'er, the youngest, was the most excited and rushed forward with his eyes lit up.
"I'll do it, I'll do it"
Although Xiao Dou'er is a girl, she is the most courageous. After receiving permission, she couldn't help but get started with it herself.
She held a long string incense stick, stuck out her butt and stretched her arms. According to Professor Dad's posture just now, she rubbed the red incense head against the fuse, and finally ignited the fuse of the second kick.
Then the little girl just ran back two steps, stared at the second kick, watching it make a "bang", and then disappeared without a trace.
"Bang~Bang~"
“Geehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Xiao Dou'er giggled, laughing while jumping, which made her grandfather and the old man so happy.
"Oh! It turns out that their courage has grown to Xiao Dou'er!"
"Come on, let's see if grandpa will put one for you."
"Bang~Bang"
Li Kaijian held a second kick in his hand, and after igniting it, he didn't throw it out, so he fired it from his hand.
Xiao Dou'er was shocked, opened her mouth and was stunned for a long time, and then asked Li Ye for a second kick, obviously he wanted to follow suit.
"I'll try, I'll try!"
"Try the yarn!"
Li Ye glared at Li Kaijian and pulled Xiao Dou'er behind him.
The child is so young, do you teach her to fire a gun? What if it collapses?
Parents in the 1980s were really a big heart. They didn’t take their kids seriously, even if they were bitten by their dogs, as long as they didn’t miss their arms and legs.
Li Kaijian was glared at by Li Ye, and he was a little annoyed, but Li Ye had Wen Leyu's support, so he couldn't curse now, so he just muttered.
"What a bear!"
In the 1980s, the second kicks were put on the ground, and the bears were placed.
You said I'm a bear guy?
Li Ye was very unhappy. Although he did not have the same military experience as Li Zhongfa and Li Kaijian, he was also a real man.
But just as Li Ye rubbed his fingers and was about to play with a hand-held firecracker, he found that his daughter Xiao Dou'er was excited and eager to try, and he suddenly lost interest in competing.
Parents are their children’s first teachers, and “staying away from unnecessary dangers” should be the most important lesson.
"Xiao Dou'er, it's boring to fire this kind of cannon. Dad will take you to play this exciting one."
Li Ye still took out Gatlin, whom he had rubbed his hands.
The more than a dozen colored beads were wrapped together and the weight was a bit heavy. Xiao Dou'er couldn't hold it himself, so Li Ye needed to help him.
No mistakes, one song, one content, one in 6, one book, one bar, one reading!
When the dense colorful fireballs rushed into the sky, Xiao Dou'er was both nervous and excited. Her hands grabbed the fireworks tightly, and the crisp "giggle" laughter was both wanton and joyful.
Xiao Youan and Xiao Baoer tightly grasped the legs of grandpa and old man's trousers, looked at their little niece and little sister in awe, and felt a trace of blood suppression invisibly.
Li Ye looked at his daughter and his son, and he was also a little helpless.
The differences in personality between these two children are really big.
This is just like those who set off fireworks and watch fireworks in later generations. Although they all witnessed the same fireworks, their minds are different.
Why do people who set off fireworks feel more happy than people who watch fireworks?
Because he controls the fate of fireworks.
He wants the fireworks to set off whenever he wants, and he can go wherever he wants.
The same goes for society.
There are always some people who have a strong desire to control themselves, not only controlling their own, but also wanting to control others.
A parent who wants to control the children at home will be very irritable once he can't control it.
A factory manager wants to control the enterprise, and once the employees in the enterprise do not obey management, he will try his best to make them bow their heads.
An emperor, stepping on his corpse and reaching the peak of power, is just trying to control the fate of all people in the world.
In this human society, similar "control" is everywhere, unless you are a master who sees through the secular world, you will not be able to escape the social relationships that are controlled or controlled.
Looking at the elders at home and pointing at the younger generation is also a release of desire to control.
If you don’t control others, others will control you.
The more you control, the higher your social status will be and the stronger your desire for power will be.
The girl Xiao Dou'er's desire to control is obviously stronger than Xiao Baoer. Even if Xiao Baoer is "superficial" as Wen Leyu said, I don't know if she can have a deep affection for her in the future. Don't worry, dad.
"Xiao Dou'er, your brother is a little timid. Can you let him go?"
"OK!"
Xiao Dou'er happily took a new firework, rushed to her brother's side, and started teaching step by step.
"Hurry up, I'm going to light the fire!"
"Oh oh oh."
"Shit~"
The fireworks fuse was lit. The brother and sister grabbed the fireworks with four hands, just like the firefighters who were operating the faucet, helping each other and relying on each other, laughing out loud.